As I am nearing my 28th birthday I am now in possession of the know-how and experience to make the most of a quiet bachelor lifestyle.
In
the beginning I had my mind set on being the same as everybody else,
namely finding a good women and settling down and becoming a father, a
loving husband, but I was totally unprepared for the difficulties that I
would face as a teenager and a young adult.
The
problem was that I expected that the women I met would treat me in the
same respectful way that I would treat them, but I was wrong. Although
some did a lot of other women did not and I began to realize that a
large number of them were devious and not entirely truthful about their
attentions. This caused me a lot of hurt and confusion for a number of
years as well as the financial impact of all these failed attempts at
forming a long-term loving relationship.
After
making mistake after mistake for the past decade I finally decided to
start a new phase of my life, one that does not include ever settling
down with one woman and starting a family, but one that means that I
stay single and stay in control of my destiny.
I
am more than happy to leave the old me behind, the part of me that
wanted all those things as a teenager and young adult that I wanted no
longer interest me. Looking back I can see that I was never really that
contented in any of my past relationships, so what is the point of
starting another one?
Being
in control of my own life and setting achievable goals in life and
obtaining those goals are going to give me a much more real sense of
achievement and happiness than any women could ever hope to achieve.
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